Tuesday, 18 August 2020

Bar cart style

We've gone a bit tropical here at Oak Tree.  Perhaps it's a throwback to honeymoon, or maybe just a lock-down induced desire to get away, but as I sink back into the armchair, I can almost hear the steel drums being carried on a warm breeze, the palms swaying gently (next door genuinely has a tall one, you know!) and the melodic crashing of the ocean on the far-off reef's edge.  Alright, maybe that's not all within earshot, but the weather outside is certainly tropical at the moment, so I'll do my best to match it with the first iteration of my brand new bar cart.  It certainly puts me in the mood for a nice rum - what do you think?





Sunday, 16 August 2020

Mandalay

As the world commemorates the 75th anniversary of VJ Day and the end of the Second World War, this blog pays tribute to those who risked - and in many cases gave - their lives for global liberty.  I for one am thankful, even if the British Broadcasting Corporation is not.

Mandalay

By the old Moulmein Pagoda, lookin' lazy at the sea,
There's a Burma girl a-settin', and I know she thinks o' me;
For the wind is in the palm-trees, and the temple-bells they say:
"Come you back, you British soldier; come you back to Mandalay!"
Come you back to Mandalay,
Where the old Flotilla lay:
Can't you 'ear their paddles chunkin' from Rangoon to Mandalay?
On the road to Mandalay,
Where the flyin'-fishes play,
An' the dawn comes up like thunder outer China 'crost the Bay! 

'Er petticoat was yaller an' 'er little cap was green,
An' 'er name was Supi-yaw-lat - jes' the same as Theebaw's Queen, 
An' I seed her first a-smokin' of a whackin' white cheroot,
An' a-wastin' Christian kisses on an 'eathen idol's foot:
Bloomin' idol made o' mud 
Wot they called the Great Gawd Budd
Plucky lot she cared for idols when I kissed 'er where she stud!
On the road to Mandalay,
Where the flyin'-fishes play,
An' the dawn comes up like thunder outer China 'crost the Bay! 

When the mist was on the rice-fields an' the sun was droppin' slow,
She'd git 'er little banjo an' she'd sing "Kulla-lo-lo!"
With 'er arm upon my shoulder an' 'er cheek agin my cheek
We useter watch the steamers an' the hathis pilin' teak.
Elephints a-pilin' teak
In the sludgy, squdgy creek,
Where the silence 'ung that 'eavy you was 'arf afraid to speak!
On the road to Mandalay,
Where the flyin'-fishes play,
An' the dawn comes up like thunder outer China 'crost the Bay! 

But that's all shove be'ind me - long ago an' fur away 
An' there ain't no 'busses runnin' from the Bank to Mandalay;
An' I'm learnin' 'ere in London what the ten-year soldier tells:
"If you've 'eard the East a-callin', you won't never 'eed naught else."
No! you won't 'eed nothin' else
But them spicy garlic smells,
An' the sunshine an' the palm-trees an' the tinkly temple-bells;
On the road to Mandalay,
Where the flyin'-fishes play,
An' the dawn comes up like thunder outer China 'crost the Bay!

I am sick o' wastin' leather on these gritty pavin'-stones,
An' the blasted English drizzle wakes the fever in my bones;
Tho' I walks with fifty 'ousemaids outer Chelsea to the Strand,
An' they talks a lot o' lovin', but wot do they understand?
Beefy face an' grubby 'and - 
Law! wot do they understand?
I've a neater, sweeter maiden in a cleaner, greener land!
On the road to Mandalay,
Where the flyin'-fishes play,
An' the dawn comes up like thunder outer China 'crost the Bay!

Ship me somewheres east of Suez, where the best is like the worst,
Where there aren't no Ten Commandments an' a man can raise a thirst;
For the temple-bells are callin', an' it's there that I would be
By the old Moulmein Pagoda, looking lazy at the sea;
On the road to Mandalay,
Where the old Flotilla lay,
With our sick beneath the awnings when we went to Mandalay!
On the road to Mandalay,
Where the flyin'-fishes play,
An' the dawn comes up like thunder outer China 'crost the Bay!

Rudyard Kipling


Wednesday, 22 July 2020

Crowded House

I've been listening to a lot of Crowded House recently.  They've been one of my favourite bands for a long time, but I've been finding an awful lot of solace in their music as we've made our way through this strange time.  Neil Finn's vocals and songwriting just does what music is supposed to do to me, to take you somewhere totally separate, yet also to display emotions that are so familiar.  What a musician he is, I'm delighted that I bagged tickets to see the band in Birmingham next year!

Over the lock-down period Crowded House, in common with a number of other bands and musicians, put together a couple of "live from home" songs, for the Music From The Front Line benefit concert.  What I love about this recording is that it was put together over a few hours, with each musician recording their parts individually.  How cool is that?  As part of this, the band recorded melodic Fall at Your Feet and upbeat Something So Strong, but it's Don't Dream It's Over that I'm sharing below, because it's one of my favourite songs.  Enjoy!

Monday, 20 July 2020

Hestercombe Gardens

We popped across the county border over the weekend to visit the gardens of Hestercombe House, near Taunton.  The gardens had recently been featured on Gardeners' World, and looked so enticing that we immediately made a plan to visit.  Since the easing of lock-down restrictions, we've seen all around us how hard people have been working to get their attractions up-to-scratch for the summer season.  At Hestercombe, the gardens are usually maintained by a team of eight, with up to 30 volunteers, but since lock-down, that number has had to be reduced to two gardeners, taking care of some 50 acres.  I can only imagine how hard they've had to work (there's two of us to work on our back garden, and there are times when that doesn't feel enough!),  but for what it's worth, they've done an unbelievable job.  On a day when even the sun was drunk on summer, it was a pleasure to amble around the woods, meadows, and formal gardens of the estate.  And all sown up with a cream tea too (as I informed Lizzie, in Somerset it's neutral territory for the cream-jam debate, although obviously we stuck to the correct, Devonian way.)  Garden enthusiasts should get themselves here as soon as possible - just don't forget to book online.  Here's just a snippet of what we found...










Friday, 10 July 2020

Challenging times

I guess I fell off the blogging wagon again recently.  It’s not that I don’t enjoy keeping this page going, but I guess there’s a combination of factors that have just diverted my attention elsewhere, and like with every aspect of life, you really can only fit so much into your day.

These have been dark, stressful and frantic times for many of us, me included.  Work has hit a pace that I don’t think I’ve ever seen before, and now that working from home has become the new normal, it sometimes feels like there’s very little escape from the office.  As one colleague told me recently, “instead of working from home, they should just call it ‘living at work.’”  My trouble is that we seem to have hit a perfect storm this year.  The pandemic is a worry.  Work is a stress.  And having a seemingly endless building project going on at home is the proverbial final straw.  Aligned to that, my usual avenues of enjoyment and stress-relief have largely (if temporarily) been restricted – I’ve had to abandon the garden, because the scaffolding on the side and back of our house has made it so hard to get in there; live football has gone out the window, and I really miss my visits to Plainmoor; I’m less motivated to do exercise because the treadmill’s in temporary storage; and I’m not settled enough to concentrate on reading ,because things have been constantly buzzing around my head.  As for blogging?  Forget it.

I think adaptability is key right now, along with a philosophical approach to the fact that 2020 just hasn’t worked out as planned.  There were a lot of archaeological sites I wanted to visit this year.  We had a great holiday booked in Scandinavia.  I had planned to see more of my friends.  Hell, we even thought that July would see a new addition to our family.  Alas these things have not come to pass, and even dwelling on them is futile, but boy does it all just chip away at your ability to cope.

So here we are, and what I’ve learned from the last few months is how uncomfortable it feels to be overwhelmed.  I've unconsciously tripped into that hole a little bit, so now the fightback must begin – I’m going to learn how to be more resilient, how to say no, and how to make sure that we look after ourselves, whilst all the madness drifts past.  And I’m going to focus on the positives.  The scaffolding came down from our house this week, so I can begin to get going on the garden, including planning a new “tropical” corner (well, we are in the Westcountry!)  I’m going to try and have an hour dedicated to reading.  I’m going get back into doing some proper exercise.  And I’m also going to make sure that at home, we’re kind to ourselves and each other.  Because you know, in amongst this crap time, there’s still a lot to look forward to, and I’m sure that happier times are just around the corner.